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Working Out, Eating Cheesecake

by Kristin D. 22. October 2009 21:59

In our early twenties, my friend Shannon and I pitched in together and got a personal trainer.  We'd both always been fairly athletic: she played beach volleyball and I ran fairly consistently but we both had sore spots we wanted to lean and strengthen. 

We chose a rough-around-the edges gym with a wrestling ring and slightly dirt-smeared tanning beds (because gritty is better, maybe?)  and we put ourselves at the hands of a tree-trunk-legged trainer named Steve.  Steve worked the holy hell out of our calves and our biceps and I vividly remember tasting barf as I attempted to do chin ups, day after failed day.  Shannon and I would stagger to my car after every work out and head straight to the Cheesecake Cafe, where we'd eat mushroom cheddar chowder (in a sourdough bowl!) and split a cheesecake sundae, talking about whether Steve was kind of cute (in a dirty gym monkey way?) or a totally gross womanizer (more likely).

We never had great results with Steve, and he never really asked us about our eating habits - which - i retrospect, what the hell, Personal Trainer Steve?  I know I believed that if I worked out hard everyday, I could basically eat whatever I wanted to.  But this last year, since I started exercising earnestly again, I've learned the bitter truth: even though you're working out like a madwoman, you still have to eat like a rabbit.

Actually, it's not that bad.  But it kind of is.  If you want results, tangible and visible ones, you've got to be cognisant of everything you're putting in your body. And that means putting down the fried food, the cheesecake, the bubbling cheese bread, the rice pudding, ohmygod. 

Since Corey and I started dating 6 months ago, my diet has altered pretty significantly.  I haven't eaten pasta once since I met him, and my bread intake has gone down a lot.  If I snack at night, it's frozen fruit (though sharp cheddar and wheat thins: how I miss you)   I credit these small changes for a lot of the changes I've noticed in my body - especially since I was essentially doing the same exercise program prior to meeting him.

Right now, I'm on the hunt for a healthy, sustainable diet. A few weeks ago, I tried Jay Cardiello's 7 day eating plan - a diet meant to help celebrities fit into their red-carpet gowns.  I stuck to it but hated every minute and found it way too restrictive.  The claim was that I'd "always feel full and have energy to spare" but screw that, I could have eaten raw chestnuts during those 7 days.  On the upside: an apple became just as delicious and seductive as a bowl of creme brulee by the end of day 7.

I remember a coworker in the late 90's shedding an alarming amount of weight on the Atkin's Diet, and I've had some success in past with Body for Life.  At dinner with friends the other night, we learned a little about a diet that touted the rule of 40-40-20 (40 carbs, 40 protein, 20 fat)  Sometimes I wonder if plain old common sense is the way to go - and whether calorie counting or fat gram watching ever really works.

In an effort to force myself to really concentrate on what I put in my body (and refrain from sneaking Starbuck's fudge oat bars when Corey's not looking) - I let a lithe young woman pinch my fat with various intimidating devices at the gym last week.  I wanted to know my current body fat so I can create a 6-month plan and goal.  I'm on the hunt for a diet plan that will help me reduce my body fat by 3% by April 2009.  I plan to work hard to stick to healthy, whole foods but I'd love to find something that allows me to at least occasionally have a slice of pie or a chocolate chip cookie.   Anyone have suggestions on sites, links, or plans that have worked for them?

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10/20/2009 6:55:20 AM #

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10/20/2009 10:26:13 AM #

What did the calipers tell you - what's your body fat percentage now? I had mine done about 8 years ago and I was at 20%, and since then my doctor has advised me that my ideal fat percentage is about 15% (that sounds sorta low, but I have some specific issues: low lung volume as well as high cholesterol and low body fat keeps that at bay). And like you say, the only way to get there is via restricting your food intake, although resistance training is supposed to covert those last stubborn fat stores to muscle; ugh I hate resistance training.

I have never been very good at following those specific diet plans, I'd rather just use common sense. In general I try to eat high-fiber food, since it fills me up and then pretty much just comes right through the next morning. So for a "special pastry treat," since I love to have coffee with some sort of bread, I've been making fruity bran muffins lately. I have a recipe that uses minimal oil and sugar, 3:1 bran to WW flour, nonfat sour cream, applesauce, and frozen raspberries and blueberries. Those muffins are like lead weights, and one small one is very filling and satisfying with a morning coffee snack. And it feels like a treat! That usually gives me the mental willpower to get through another day of spinach salads with kidney beans, or nonfat refried beans with plain yogurt and salsa!


Jennifer

10/20/2009 5:57:48 PM #

I recently joined a group lead by a friend who touted Protein Power.  She had done a large amount of research based on the fact that we need to eat more protein and keep our carbs levels much lower than what we currently consume.  For several months I ate no more than 20-30 carbs per day.  That's very low.  And I did loose a lot of baby fat from my two pregnancies.  I believe in most of what she taught me, so you might want to check it out.  They also believe that you should do more weight lifting and less running.  Any books by Eades and Eades will start you on that track.  

amymarie

10/20/2009 10:22:25 PM #

I found the Paleo (caveman) diet through crossfit.  Basically eat fish, meat, nuts, seeds, vegetables, fruits (little starch and no sugar).  If you eat only these food types you can generally eat as much as you want so you don't go hungry.  I found with this style of eating I have increased muscle mass and redced my body fat at the same time.  (I have gotten strong enough to do pull-ups!)

No dairy, no beans, no grains or grain products, high protein, high fat (good fat) - some people base it on the Zone diet by keeping the percentages of fat, carbs and protien balanced but I don't have that kind of patience.  It was a bit of a transistion but you get used to it and there are a lot of good things you can make with whole foods.

I also LOVE to eat sweets and generally help myself to a piece of birthday cake or half L of ice cream about once a week.  I have full fat cream in my coffee every day as may sourced recommend eating full fat versus skim due to the "purity" of lack of processing with the food you eat (grande in a venti cup filled to the top with cream - vital for my life with 2 small boys!)  
recipes:
http://eatmovethrive.blogspot.com/
performancemenu.com/.../index.php
info:
http://robbwolf.com/
http://www.thepaleodiet.com/newsletter/
http://www.marksdailyapple.com/

There is a lot more info out there...
Good luck with your goal!

Regina Robinson

10/21/2009 1:12:06 AM #

I'm a vegetarian and a runner (+ yoga/swim when I can) and I have to say that I eat pretty well -- tons of veggies and lots of protein.  I don't eat a lot of sweets because I am lucky enough to have more of a salt tooth (though potato chips!  I love.) but will indulge on occasion ... I guess for me what works is the balance: like, if I put 1/2 and 1/2 in my morning coffee (essential) I'll eat dairy free the rest of the day.   Or if I do a super long run I'll 'treat' myself to a grilled cheese along with my vegetable soup.  I know this is terribly non-scientific but it mostly works (I am basically the same weight/fat % most of the time give or take a few pounds here and there) and I feel energized and strong when I run, which for me is the most important thing.

I subscribe to Runner's World and they always have great nutritional tips as well as recipes and sometimes articles about how to trim the fat and such (lots of stuff online, too).  But probably the best way to go is to 'allow' yourself to indulge every so often so as to not feel deprived, eat lots of whole grains/veggies, and be conscious of how much you consume.  Just a few thoughts!

nicole

10/21/2009 4:20:09 AM #

hey Kristen,
I am Corey's friend from home. I started to Tracy Anderson myself last spring. She takes about an hour each day for her "Mat" program. I am telling you she is the best thing that ever happened to me. Simple repetative movements that ache while being done but look so hot. http://tracyandersonmethod.com/
I keep it simple with my diet. Quina is a staple, chick pea salads, Parsely, Blueberries, yeast free and Gluetin free everything.100% fruit juice.
Sam is a friend who is extremly knowldgable with nutriotion and very helpful http://www.nu-roots.com/About_Us.html. She might have some good ideas.
Also another good food web site that you can plug in what you have in your cupboard and it will spit out a recipe http://www.supercook.com/signin.asp?msg=6.
Facebook me and let me know what you think.
Be well
Anne

anne bembridge

10/21/2009 7:59:46 AM #

Jennifer - the calipers said I was a little under 21% body fat - and though that's in optimal range, I was still, honestly, a little dismayed...I thought I'd come in around 19%, especially since I'd been running/exercising a minimum of 5 times a week.  Makes me wonder what I was at before?  Those muffins sound rad, do you have a link to a recipe or is it more of a "little of this, little of that" thing?

Amymarie, thank you.  I'll take a look into those books this weekend.

Regina, you totally made me want a piece of birthday cake!  I appreciate the links and will be wading through them.

Anne, thanks for the info!  Corey has mentioned you before and I'm happy to meet you.  Will have a look and keep you posted.

kristind

10/21/2009 10:36:44 AM #

Hey Kristin. I did the "little of this, little of that" thing with the muffins for about a year and finally settled on as low-fat and low-sugar as I can get (and have them still hold together). So I have a good recipe now, I'll either email it or post here in the comments after I return from a weekend with mom. Have a great weekend, we're loving the rain up here now aren't we? Smile

Jennifer

10/21/2009 1:42:38 PM #

Honestly I think the most common-sense, sustainable way of eating right is one that you said you've already tried:  Body for Life.  No counting calories or grams of anything, just eating the right combinations of things and keeping portions sensible.  What could be easier than one protein (the size of a deck of cards), one low-glycemic carb (about a 1/2 cup), and veggies (lots!)?  This is easy to do at home and in restaurants.  And the thing that makes me think it would work well for you was when you said "occasionally have a slice of pie or chocolate chip cookie."  Because, remember the free day in Body for Life?  He recommends that one day per week you eat whatever you want.  Not only does this make things easier emotionally and psychologically, but it also helps your metabolism by throwing a big change in once a week.  If you eat the exact same number of calories every day, your body adjusts to that as the new normal.  So one day a week of totally different eating is supposed to be good.  And at the level of activity you're doing, I can't imagine that one day a week of having some cheese and a little splurge at the bakery would really do any damage.  Out of curiosity what was it about BFL that you didn't like?

Kara

10/22/2009 11:58:16 PM #

Hey Kara,

It wasn't really that I didn't like Body for Life - actually I remember it producing results for me.  But I do seem to recall eating a lot of cottage cheese and yogurt.  I actually may try that one again because I think you're right: it did make sense and now that I'm working out a lot, it may really help me get to that next level.

I will keep you posted - thanks!

kristind

10/24/2009 10:48:23 PM #

Kristin, meet Patrick. He'll get you there. http://twitter.com/patrickcantype

Gwen Bell

10/25/2009 3:31:34 PM #

We did the P90X diet earlier this year (but not the workout), and while the first stage is a lot of prep work, man is it worth it. I never once felt hungry, and I noticed results in as little as a month!

Chelsea

10/25/2009 5:49:05 PM #

I second the Paleo diet. If you really want to get stronger and lean out limit your carb intake (all carbs, not just starchy ones) to <60 grams per day and eat MEAT and FAT every meal. I talk about a maintainable diet on this blog post, you should check it out! http://jsfour.com/s/9

Jimi

10/25/2009 9:57:03 PM #

Here's the "heavy as a brick" bran muffin recipe. Not sure if this will fit into the BFL diet since it's all carbs, but for what it's worth, these are high-fiber & lowfat and help satisfy my bread cravings!

whisk together wet ingredients: 1 cup nonfat sour cream, 1/3 cup sugar, 1/3 cup canola oil, 1/3 cup unsweetened applesauce, 6 Tbsp egg whites, 1/3 cup agave nectar (can use molasses instead of agave, or karo light or dark syrup, depending on the taste you want).

sift together dry ingredients: 1 cup WW flour, 1 tsp salt, 1/2 tsp baking powder, 1/2 tsp baking soda.

fold dry into wet ingredients, stir until moistened, then stir in 3 cups bran. (this is when it all gets thick and more like dough than batter.) Now stir in fruit. I usually add 1 cup frozen blueberries and 1/2 cup frozen raspberries; you can add as much as you want. The only reason I use frozen is so they'll retain their shape as I stir into the thick dough. You can also just drop the fruit pieces into the muffin cups before you plop in the dough too.

This makes a dozen muffins. They won't rise at all (they're too heavy!) so fill the muffin papers heaping full. Bake at 350 degrees F for 35-40 minutes.

Jennifer

10/31/2009 11:55:24 PM #

I find that calorie counting really does work for me, and I'm horrible with sticking to specific diet plans so I liked the freedom to eat whatever I wanted as long as it fit within my daily caloric limit. I quickly learned that eating more than a tiny amount of chocolate or ice cream or potato chips would mean I'd use up my entire caloric intake for the day by lunchtime so I learned to span my calories across the whole day with high volume, low calorie (read: healthier) foods I and I wouldn't go hungry. And if I was really, really craving something specific, then I could plan out a way to include it in my diet. So that worked for me, but it's interesting to see what works for everyone else.

By the way if you try calorie counting, sparkpeople.com has an incredibly helpful calorie tracker that takes some of the work out of calorie counting. I would have found it too time consuming and complicated to stick to if it weren't for that website.

alittlecoffee

11/1/2009 11:40:13 PM #

I love the Eat Clean diet.  It wasn't a big change from how I was already eating and it allows carbs.  No refined sugar or white flour but still amazing tasting food and recipes.  There is a recipe for rice pudding using brown rice so I can get my craving fix.  I would recommend it for anyone.

heathercoo

1/2/2010 11:58:42 AM #

I'm a dietitian and without getting into details, when choosing a diet to follow, please be aware of the minerals and vitamins you need to maintain good health.  Some diets may be suited to reducing fat and building muscle, but may be lacking in some essential vitamins. Generally, eating a balanced diet high in vegetables and fruit, along with healthy proteins and whole grains will meet your nutrient requirements.  I'm not sure what your stance is on milk products, but as a woman, it's pretty important to get adequate calcium from dietary sources or supplements, if needed.
It sounds like you are following a very healthy diet consisting of mainly whole, unprocessed foods.  With that noted, "treats" definitely fit into a healthy diet.  I say have a beer/cheesecake/wings when it means something to you (not habitually) and when you are choosing the "healthy" option 90-95% of the time.  I love food and I love eating, and sometimes I just want a damn cheeseburger!

Renee

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I'm Mom to a four-year old goggle enthusiast, girlfriend to a fitness-obsessed software geek, and reluctant lover of Kozy Shack rice pudding.  I hate to run, but I do it with a vengeance because it feels so good when it's done and I curse Jillian Michaels under my breath but I credit her with visible shoulder muscles for the first time in my life.  I'm replacing Doritos with carrots and hummous, and I finally understand that my muffin top was related to my inhalation of too many muffins.  In this blog I'll talk about my fledlgling journey: from suburban fatskinny to strong and fit via yoga, adventure sports, running, the gym and boot camp.  I'm stoked to have you along for the ride.

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