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Fit is not an Example

by Kristin D. 11. February 2010 15:31

At our first Crossfit class, our trainer asked Corey and I what it meant to be fit.  I turned to Corey expectantly because he is better at talking.  There's a reason I write.

Corey explained that fitness, to him, was the ability to do anything - any kind of physical activity - with ease.  Scale mountains, I thought, sprint when you're 60, race to Starbucks with your four year old, ad nauseum.

Dave was nodding energetically, yes, yes.  He told us: most people provide examples of people or events when they define Fitness.  Fit is an Ironman athlete.  Fit is Michael Phelps, minus the bong.  Fit people have ripples in their stomach and they eat a lot of ugly food and care too much about a body that is going to wrinkle and crumple and end up communing with worms, anyway.

Those are all wrong, Dave suggested, fitness is about exploiting what you can do to the max.  Step into a kayak for the first time and your core is strong; you won't tip it.  Your arms are hard and lean, you'll paddle the first time, easily.  You'll go further and see more than someone who isn't fit, who doesn't notice the scenery because her arms are screaming.

His words spoke to me.  I admit I began this journey because I wanted my butt to look better in my jeans.  I wanted to be healthy and live longer and yadda yadda yadda, really all I ever wanted was a rock hard stomach and a perky butt.

But then when I started to create goals for myself (part and parcel of the hard stomach) - I started to lose a little of the focus on physical changes, and I realized the mental.  I was enjoying doing things more.  I liked doing pushups and I wanted to do as many squats as humanly possible because I wanted to challenge myself, because I have a goal to run a half marathon with my son when I am in my fifties. 

That said, I am a big fan of writing down goals.  I think something snaps in space when intent meets pen and I've seen a million things happen because I've written them down and concentrated on them.  So my fit goals this year are:

1. Complete a half marathon in 1:45 or less.  We've registered for the Vegas Marathon where Corey is going to beat down BHJ,(BHJ has been goading. We can't resist a goad.)

2. Work out 5 days a week as hard as possible for the rest of 2010.

3. Take Nolan on one fitness related activity every week: hiking, biking, climbing, etc. This will be a bit easier in the summer.

4. Do 3 pull ups in a row.

5. Bring body fat level down to 19%.  (Yeah, this one's not overly noble, but it's a goal and I want it and it'll force me to eat better.  I still struggle with the peanut butter.)

What are your goals?  Write 'em down.  You'll be amazed at what you can accomplish.

 

 

Comments

2/11/2010 12:32:30 AM #

This is an interesting post.
My husband and I were talking about this the other day. Because I guess compared to a lot of people, I'm fairly fit, but it never feels "enough" to me. What I want from "being fit" is more strength and more speed. And those two things are hard to achieve.
My goal this year is to run a 2 hour half marathon (my current PB is 2:26) and to be comfortable in a bikini this summer.
The last one has as much to do with accepting my flaws as it does doing planks, but there you have it.
I think a big motivator for a lot of people to exercise is to lose weight and have a cute ass, but along the road we learn there is so much more.

Kaitlyn

2/11/2010 6:21:55 AM #

[sets aside arrogance] See. This makes me nervous because 1:45's a pretty good time. If you hit it, it'll probably be us who are racing, unless Corey's around the same.

So here's my question. You and Corey finished Vancouver around the same time in the 1:50s, right? But did Corey sandbag it for his girl? Not knowing if his 1:50 something was his all or a jog in the park is, you know, kind of important.

[resumes arrogance] I just kicked off 6 8:20s after running 42 days in a row. How fast will it be after 340 days? Bring the noise.

BHJ

2/11/2010 6:51:07 AM #

Yeah, Corey slowed down a lot for me in the second half of the race.  And then I spent 5 minutes pleading with him to go ahead so he could run to his capability.  So I think it'll be pretty easy for him to run a 145.  It'll be much more of a struggle for me, but I'm a hell of a lot stronger and faster than I was this time last year.  I am going to give it my all.

Neither one of us can fucking believe that you've run 42 days in a row. You're an animal, and quite likely insane in your tenacity.  But we're still not scared of you. Bring it.

Kristin

2/11/2010 8:19:52 AM #

Love this post - and wholeheartedly agree...Fit isn't an example, its how you live your life. I can run a 1:42 half marathon, but pull ups eulde me, even after decades of trying. For me fitness is being able to surf waves in my kayak, and hike up stunning mountains.  I've been at it religiously for more than 20 years and I don't have ripped abs,although I like to think my butt, is somewhat perky.  I might be deluding myself.  Or maybe I stopped caring because I love how it feels to be active. I think goals, tempered with a certain degree os acceptance, are wonderful. At the same time, the marathons I have enjoyed the most, are the ones where I threw the time goal out the window, and ran to enjoy the day.

Good Luck - I'll be following to see how you make out.

Loewen Behold

2/11/2010 8:27:08 PM #

For me the greatest thing about becoming fit is that I can do any activity I choose.  I never want to return to that person who stayed at home on the couch because they couldn't do a physical activity.

AndrewENZ

2/11/2010 11:04:54 PM #

When i first joined Crossfit I was asked about my goals...I gave honest answers including weight loss, being "fitter", feeling "healthier"...blah, blah...and I saw the look that came accross my trainer's face.  He wanted something tangible...but I had nothing to offer.

I get it now.

pull-ups
squat full body weight
run 5k without stopping (currently I do it a walk/run)
move up to 15lb medecin ball for all WOD (currently use 10lb)

I tried to leave a comment about Crossfit on your last post discussing it...can't remember what I said exactly (not important) except that Crossfit is the first place (in a very long time) where I feel that people judge me based on what my body can DO instead of what my body looks like.  That is liberating.

wn

2/12/2010 3:59:49 AM #

When I am exercising and eating right (that previous post about pizza, wine, and ice dancing was OBVIOUSLY just hypothetical), I feel like a million dollars. Clothes just hang on my body without pinching or rolling. I have energy, smile all the time and positive and encouraging words fall from my lips with ease. I sleep like a baby, run like the wind, and love the world around me.
When I have had a huge cherry limeade, a bacon cheesburger and fries and haven't exercised in a week in a half, I don't sleep, I don't smile and I don't have a kind word for anyone.
Ask my co-workers. Oh, wait, they're all hiding at their desks lest they have to face my wrath.
*shrugs*

Sticky Nickel

2/12/2010 4:57:52 AM #

I agree. Being fit, for me, means that when I come up with some crazy idea, I'm able to achieve it without killing myself. I don't think I'll ever Get There. Get to a place where I'm satisfied and done. I'm an incredibly unlikely insatiable endurance athlete. I once said I had no desire to do an Ironman, and now I'm training for my third, so why should I bother to say that I have no interest in doing a 100mile run? Because I probably will, eventually. Why? .. Why not? To see if I can. Because my work is just that.. work. And this is my outlet for feeling accomplished.

I won't ever Win (unless I cherrypick races like crazy), but for someone who grew up sedentary, who remembers wheezing her way around one lap of the track and declaring that running was stupid and she hated it, I AM winning, in that I'm out there doing more than I ever would have thought possible. Than I ever would have thought I WANTED to.

amy

2/12/2010 5:24:56 AM #

@wn, that is a really interesting comment about being judged in CF based on what you can DO vs what you look like. And, frankly, that is one of the things that scared me MOST about crossfit when I started! I could do long endurance stuff, am a reasonably skinny person (enough to pass society's non-spoken litmus test, anyway), but all the sudden I was like "Oh crap, that's not going to be good enough here. ABORT ABORT!"

Thankfully I didn't, and I have to tell you -- I can't do half as much as some of my CF peers, but there is no greater feeling of badassery than when you start improving, and showing yourself (and the rest of the gym) what you can do. Not what you look like. There are no mirrors in my CF gym, and I don't miss them at ALL.

Liz

2/13/2010 2:28:50 AM #

Kristen,
While I enjoy and find very useful the fitness info on your blog, this post has made me realize that what I admire the most is the honesty in your posts.    

Cheers,
-mike.

Michael Dundas

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