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The Power of Trying Harder

by Kristin D. 18. February 2010 21:17

Corey and I originally plotted to escape Vancouver during the winter Olympics.  We'd rent out his apartment to the highest bidder and go to surf school in Costa Rica.  Or maybe we'd take a break from our work-packed days and just lie, device free, on a pier somewhere, next to crystal green water.

But Corey's apartment didn't rent and our cat needed ridiculously expensive surgery and a million other things happened to make escaping impossible.  So,we decided - we'd just have to brave the crazy traffic and swarming crowds and irritating tourist masses and hole up inside our house with our vats of egg whites and multitudes of leafy greens.

I think we were both shocked at what happened: about how glad we are to be here during this once-in-a-lifetime opportunity to witness athletic prowess and raw determination at its highest, grittiest best.

***

This city has exploded.  Vancouverites are notorious for their keep-to-themselves vibe.  They're friendly but efficiently distant, in general, but this Olympics has somehow morphed them into break-dancing, anthem bellowing, patriotic, fist pumping firecrackers.  There is dancing in the streets, Maple Leaf flags hanging out of car windows and from front windows, and strangers high-fiving, making small talk.  I stopped at the gas station by my house the other night, the same one I've been to hundreds of times before and the cashier bubbled over:

"Did you see we got gold?" she said, in Hindi accented English,"First gold at home!" 

"Yes!" I responded,"So awesome!   Did you read the story of his brother, his inspiration?"

She beamed.  She had.  In hundreds of visits to that gas station over the years, this was the first time she had talked to me, looked at me.  That's the Olympics.

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Corey and I had the insanely awesome opportunity to watch his good friend Stefan race at the cross country ski sprints on Wednesday.  Cross country isn't a sport I followed: it isn't even a sport I thought I'd find particularly interesting.  But as I sat in the bleachers amidst flags from around the world, I was struck by the raw power and athleticism of the skiers.  They were focused, tight, muscular, prepared.  Their bodies were like perfectly oiled machines, and we were close enough to see the grit on their faces as they pushed through pain, pushed through agony, to get that skier ahead of them, to meet their personal best.

Though I haven't yet met Stefan, I teared up a bit at the end of his race, watching him push to overtake the athlete in front of him, knowing second-handedly a little bit of how hard he's worked, for so many years, at this one sport.   Every athlete in this city has shed blood, sweat and tears in the name of their sport and I think we get emotional over it because we all recognize it.  We all respect that furious quest for betterment, even if we don't take it on ourselves.

Modern life is so easy: we in North America don't have to "work" for much anymore.  We drive cars rather than expend energy, we buy a package at the grocery store rather than hunt or gather or scour for it.  We sit in front of computers and labor at jobs that pay us money that's spent on making our lives even easier. 

For me, witnessing an athlete at the highest peak of his sport is like inhaling inspiration: watching someone who has done the impossible, rejected the odds, chose the painful road over the easy one and landed on a dream. It inspires individually and brings countries together.  There is a feeling of accomplishment, another rarity in our daily lives: we push paper, we send emails.  The inbox is never empty.  We never get a gold medal for our awesome powerpoint presentation.

I know there are social issues and Olympic protests and too much corporate sponsorship and all of that.  But at the heart of the Olympics is the display of human spirit and determination at its finest.  It has the ability to provoke change, resolve, and tears.  It makes me want to push my body harder, it makes me want to say hello to my neighbors.  It makes me want to hurl down a half pipe, read more about biathlon, skate on an outdoor rink.  It makes me want to compete: against myself, Corey, the people at the gym.

I feel immensely lucky to witness all this first hand.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Comments

2/18/2010 6:46:55 PM #

I know exactly what you mean about the city coming together. I live in Memphis and the Univ. of Memphis almost won the NCAA championship a couple of years ago. The whole city changed! People came together and started treating each other like family. There were no blacks, white, rich or poor, just TIGER FANS!!!

Erika

2/18/2010 7:21:50 PM #

Color me completely jealous.  I can't believe you contemplated leaving town.  I am really, really hoping to be in London in 2012.

Leigh

2/18/2010 11:03:58 PM #

Sigh...The olympics is on pay tv here so I haven't watched any!

AndrewENZ

2/18/2010 11:14:59 PM #

i admit, i haven't watched any of the olympics, but this post leaves me feeling very inspired. wonderful, as always.

zegshy

2/18/2010 11:48:36 PM #

You mentioned watching Up In The Air a while ago, it's like he said, "Kids love professional athletes because they follow their dreams."
Elite athletes are inspiring creatures to watch. Amazing. I'm glad you're enjoying sticking around Smile

Kaitlyn

2/19/2010 1:35:00 AM #

I should qualify my earlier statement.  I am trying to go to London as a spectator.  I think, at 48, I may have to give up my olympic dreams (which mainly consisted of dreaming about sports I have never even participated in and how badass I'd be if only I'd started at three.  Then blaming my parents.)

Leigh

2/19/2010 2:09:00 PM #

Leigh, if anyone could go to the Olympics at 48, it would be you, woman.  You kick some serious ass.

Kristin

2/20/2010 5:59:36 AM #

This post is a good example of why I really do love your writing.
I'm kind of an Olympics hater, and your piece moved me.

shelley

2/22/2010 4:20:43 AM #

I fully admit seeing the whole thing has made me have more pride in my country than ever before - just for those who have to watch it on paytv... there are two sites to see for free: Canadians: www.ctv.ca
US: www.nbc.com
Both stations have full coverage.
TSN also has livefeeds.
I'm also getting very fat over the Olympics and plan on doing a mega workout/cutback on food the second it's all over.

K

2/22/2010 5:22:18 PM #

Shelley, thank you.  That's a really nice thing to say and I appreciate it.

K - You are not fat.  You should know vicariously, too, that you should never say that word on the Internet. I don't think the video coverage on nbc and ctv is available outside the US and Canada but I could be wrong.

Kristin

2/24/2010 9:19:11 AM #

"Every athlete in this city has shed blood, sweat and tears in the name of their sport and I think we get emotional over it because we all recognize it.  We all respect that furious quest for betterment, even if we don't take it on ourselves."  YES!  You have nailed it on the head.  This is why middle-aged, non-athletic me is glued to the tv.  Glad you are enjoying the Olympic spirit.

Amy

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I'm Mom to an almost 5-year-old Superman enthusiast , partner to a (super hot)  fitness-obsessed software geek, and remorseful ex-lover of Kozy Shack rice pudding.  I started on a quest to end my muffin top a year ago, and have discovered strength I didn't know existed via Crossfit, running, clean eating, and dedicated concentration to a healthier lifestyle.  I'm a typical suburban houselady with a career, a man, a kid, and a cat but I can also deadlift over 200 pounds and I can see my abs for the first time in my life.  That kind of rocks.

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